How Four Single Moms Made Buying, Living In, And Renovating A Home A Funhouse
Friends and mothers Holly Harper and Herrin Hopper joked about forming a private resort for single moms.
Nobody was laughing at them when they and two other single mothers united to do just that!
Divorce Changed Their Lives Forever
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After friends Holly Harper and Herrin Hopper went through their respective divorces, the realities of single parenthood loomed large.
A health scare and the rising cost of living in the Washington D.C. area were at the top of their minds.
Harper Had To Move On From 17 Years Of Marriage
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Holly Harper's tale is no different from many other women dealing with divorce, but she was determined not to be another statistic.
Harper's marriage of 17 years ended in 2018, and she knew quick action was necessary for her and her children.
"Why not do this?"
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It did not take long for Harper and Hopper to say to each other, "Why not do this?"
It took the friends barely one week to come together and find a house to share with their families.
The American Dream Almost Was A Nightmare
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Traditionally, getting married, starting a family, and buying a home to raise them in was the "American Dream" for millions.
That middle-class bubble of an idea bursts quickly after a divorce, leaving the adults and kids to pick up the leftover pieces of their lives.
Holly and Herron, Meet Jen and Leandra
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Struggling mothers Jen, Leandra, and their families moved in with Holly, Herron, and their families.
Together the four family groups have learned how to function as normally as possible, with all that comes with sharing the four-unit home.
Safety First
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There is an assumption that the ingredients of divorce, children, and the living arrangements of four separate families living together would be a disaster.
Instead, the women believe the unity provides, according to them, "almost a spiritual safety net every day here."
The Tradition Is To Be Non-Traditional
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The combination of losing her father, turning 40 years old, and the end of her marriage signaled the end of living the way society says to.
Herrin said to Holly, "Burn the rulebook of life and just look at it differently."
The Women Had Playmates Too
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Not only did the kids have live-in friends to play and do things with, but so did their mothers.
They helped each other out by car-sharing and carpooling. From potlucks to having someone to have an ugly cry with, the women made lemonade out of lemons.
Everything Wasn't Always Sunshine And Rainbows
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Blending four families under one roof did not always go smoothly for the women.
Items like laundry, "iPads, dishes, cups..." go missing and, at times, unwillingly shared among everyone in the home.
Save $30,000? Yes Please!
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Expenses like babysitting and spending money on gas every week also benefited from the living situation of the four mothers.
Being in a position to better manage expenses has allowed Harper to save roughly $30,000 per year, she estimates.
Kids Will Be Kids
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The age range of the kids living in the home is 9-14. Harper says the children have formed a cousin-like relationship with each other.
The narrow gaps in age provide perfect conditions for playing and always having a playmate.
The Women Found Something New Together...Freedom
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Despite the chaos that occasionally took place, each of the mothers found the living arrangements were a source of freedom.
Any one of them could make plans to workout or socialize outside the home and know their kids were safe and around trusted adults.
Decisions Were Made Together
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For the four single moms, living together meant household decisions could be made together instead of struggling to figure things out individually.
The women often decided about repairs and yard work expenses over a bottle of champagne.
Welcome To The "Siren House"
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Named after mythical creatures who lured men to their doom, the four women call their home the "Siren House."
Minus the original myth's gloomy ending, the concept of women coming together and being empowered is clear and present.
You Are Not Alone
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While the story was unique when initially reported, the single moms learned they were not alone in their experiences.
They routinely answer questions from other women in their positions who are inspired to follow in their trailblazing footsteps.
Siren Became Equal To Feminism
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The story outlining the lives of these single-parent families living together is not for their glorification.
To them, "Siren House" is part of "building a community..." that will "bring people together."
Divorce Is Not The End, But Is A New Beginning
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Lives, memories, and assets are ripped apart after the divorce process has run its course.
Everything accumulated together with their partners was now their sole responsibility. Owning property and having children is enough of a challenge for married couples.
Siren House Is "A Kid's Paradise"
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"Siren House" is not just where four single parents live together and raise their kids.
According to Harper, "...it's a kid's paradise, complete with a giant trampoline, a parkour line, a garden, a gym, a big-screen TV, and a craft studio."
Quarantine? Homeschool? No Problem
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Although recent health concerns forced many parents to quarantine and homeschool their children, these four ladies got the perfect outcome.
All of the kids being trapped together during those dark days allowed for a buddy system. Teaming with others of similar interests led to getting gelato, playmates, and a million laughs.
The Pursuit Of Happiness...What A Concept
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To the four women and their families in this story, the "pursuit of happiness" is all that matters.
They wanted to create an environment filled with peace and safety. The words are literally in the U.S. Constitution.
Holly And Herron Started With Modest, Not Lofty Goals
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Neither Herron nor Holly had delusions of grandeur in mind when they planned to live with two other single moms and their kids.
They wanted a property suited for four families to be "within walking distance of public transit" and, according to Harper, "have our own separate units" with doors they can all lock.
It Worked For The Golden Girls
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At first glance, the story around the four single mothers might lead people to believe it came from nowhere.
In fact, according to Harper, TV shows like The Golden Girls, Grace and Frankie, and The Facts of Life featured women coexisting under one roof.
More Space And Less Expense
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Immediately after her divorce was finalized, Harper moved into a one-bedroom apartment with her daughter and split the room so they could have separate spaces.
Once she moved in with the other women, her monthly expenses decreased, and the new place had more living space.
Repairs Are Not An Issue
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Most of the homes in the neighborhood are more than 50 years old. The house that the families live in was built back in 1927.
Not surprisingly, it needed many repairs and renovations despite being well-taken care of by the previous owners.
What Could Go Wrong, Did Go Wrong
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Unexpected things like, a broken water heater, a water leak, and a collapsed bathroom ceiling seemed to happen all at once.
$10,000 was raised in the women's "emergency fund," which was enough for the repairs and upgrades
Even The Dogs Had It Made
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By pooling their resources together into one pot monthly, bills and expenses like the three dogs in the house never get out of control.
The group funds were used to replace the front door deadbolt and install a fence for the dogs.
Who Needs The Gym?
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One of the four mothers, Jen, is a certified CrossFit coach, and their home now mirrors any gym.
Every piece of equipment the women need for working out is right there, and they have a live-in professional coach.
Herrin And Her Peloton
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Herrin is a woman that wears many different hats. Hopper is a self-proclaimed artist, herbalist, and cyclist.
Anyone working on a project only has to find Herrin for supplies, and she also is an excellent Peloton partner.
Holly Should Be On HGTV
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In addition to being a DIY fanatic, Holly is also a decorator and photographer. The decor of the house has her fingerprints all over it.
She shared what she had with her roommates, from her sewing machine to a cordless drill.
Leandra The Minimalist
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Leandra brings something that cannot be measured or quantified to the household.
Practical tips about frequenting thrift stores instead of hoarding from Leandra help keep that busy house free of clutter and junk.